Think about it from my point of view.

I would love if you just realized that you will never have this chance again to spend this much time with me, and in the future when you look back and think about it you will wish you would have realized how dumb you are being. I'm going to be living on my own and not visiting nearly as much soon. We will have two completely separate lives and we won't have a chance to be together like we are now, so just take a moment and think about it. Is it really a question of him vs. me?