People will be people and the blenderman

This evening we were talking about our blender man, which is all the things you want in a guy put together to made the guy, like putting all the ingredients in a blender and getting the perfect drink. We were supposed to be writing a list of things, but I couldn't write anything. My mind stayed as blank as the page. Am I wrong in not having the words to put down. Should I choose the things I want  and then the guy? Or find the guy, and then see what he has himself? It doesn't seem right to pick all the qualities and if a man doesn't have one of those to just say goodbye like it was nothing.

But then there comes the problem of even finding someone who you are interested in who is interested in you too. People are complicated and messy. How is it possible to find someone with just enough of the same interests as you, not too many not too little. There are people together all the time. How do people find each other? It seems strange, you meet someone named Charlie or Bill or April or Lucy or whatever they may be named, and then something in you says they're special. And you get their number and you start hanging out or you don't. Either way you found some sort of common ground, something that interested you, or the other person. Or maybe initially you don't have that spark, but even still, you become friends. Gradually you fall for them, or vice versus. Anyway, why does this happen. It just seems strange to me.