Things I've learned this year in college: part one

1. Mugs are useful as bowls, cups, and candy containers
2. People will surprise you
3. The air/ heat in Gainey rarely works
4. Embrace each and everyday as if you will never get it back, because the truth is, you won't
5. People bond over surprising things, especially youtube
6. Always carry an umbrella, nail clippers, chap stick, two pens, two pencils, a highlighter, pain reliever, a water bottle, and lotion in your back pack
7. Get your homework done before nine at night, because after that everyone wants to hang out
8. Anywhere that you're with people you love and who love you,  you are at home
9. Learning is a good thing
10. Euchre is worth learning how to play
11. If the chance for a random adventure comes up, take advantage of it
12. Human trafficking exists and must be put to an end
13. You will never find the perfect man/ woman and that is okay
14. Cheetahs are just cats that get too big
15. Male seahorses are the ones that give birth and carry their babies
16. Contrary to popular belief, our nation is a republic, not a democracy.
17. My parents know a lot about life
18. My parents are great parents
19. Moving on after you've lost something, or someone isn't as hard as you think it will be
20. There are no bad kids, only bad parents
21. People are desperate to be heard, for someone to really listen
22. Sometimes being isolated to your room is a good thing; we all need space and alone time
23. Everyone wants to feel loved and accepted by someone
24. Be joyful always
25. Being joyful always doesn't mean you have to be cheery and happy all the time
26. Every one is a hypocrite and that is just a part of life
27. Nothing can separate us from God's love
28. People leave, people grow apart
29. Laugh hard, often
30. There is no such thing as a hipster
31. Your smile is your best accessory
32. Words can change everything
33. People can change everything


jsyk

For my 16th birthday my grandma got me a pink sweatshirt. The sweatshirt has denim elbow pads and a cat on the front. The cat has a removable crochet nose for easy washing. The edges have ruffles.

learning

I am continually surprised by everyday things that I feel like most people wouldn't be surprised by. I really think that the little surprises in life make up a vast majority of the great memories I have stored in my mind. Spending time with my friends teaches me so much. I have been contemplating whether or not I actually learn more from my peers than my professors.

I feel like all of the people I am around at this school are all super blessed with something special, some great ability, or characteristic that makes them stand out. There are so many talents here, and I'm not even talking about just the physical. I am always caught of guard by the things people say, or do, or create.

Because of these things I am slightly fearful of the future. I will have to leave this place, and these people in two years. That seems so close. I'm not the type of person to tell myself that I'll stay connected with them all either, I know that the reality is that I will be lucky if I seem a few of them once a year. I am sure that it will be fine, but there's still that small fear.

One of my favorite things that I have started with a few friends this semester is our Thursday night Denny's trips. There are four of us that regularly go and then every other week invite different groups of people. We have have groups as big as fifteen plus, and as small at seven. I love bringing different people. It helps me get to know a bunch of different people that I know but not very much. It also opens doors for all of the people that come to meet others. Besides getting to know the people it is fun. Beyond fun some nights, as I'm sure most of you know laughter grows the later into the night it gets, and it is great. When we have people come up to our table you learn a lot about the people actually sitting at the table with how they react to the situation. Anyway, it teaches me a lot and that was the point.

I love being a college student and have definitely grown a ton this year, I'm kind of sad it's almost over.